Father's Day 2014

Steve had been out of town and just barely made it home in time for Father's Day.  The kids were so excited to wake up Sunday morning and find him home.  After church on Sunday (you can tell it's after church because Steve is sporting his usual post church attire-black dress socks and shorts) Addy sent him on a scavenger hunt around the house to find the present she made for him.  Not only did she make him his own board game, she also made him twelve thousand pictures.

Who's your daddy?

No butty is better than you

After lunch we headed up the canyon and found a lovely place to "relax".  Only this wasn't quite as relaxing as when we did this a few weeks before without any children.  Despite the 7 year old that kept jumping on my back saying she was bored, I managed to read a few chapters to Steve out of the book we are reading.

We came home and had a delicious dinner.  I am so thankful for this man.  I am thankful for the kind of father he is to our children.  I am thankful for the example he sets for them and for me.  I am thankful for his unwavering testimony of the gospel and of Jesus Christ.  I am thankful he works so hard everyday for us.  I am so thankful that he is my best friend.  I am so thankful we get to spend eternity together.  I love you Stephen with a ph: Phsteven!  Thank you for loving me back!

Last Weekend: Visitors From Texas, A Trip to Missouri, And More!

We had a lot going on last weekend.  Zac and Emily finished their school year on Thursday and spent the weekend at school's out parties and hanging out with friends.  I took Steve to the airport Friday morning for a quick trip to St. Louis.  One of his best friends he grew up with passed away and he was going to a memorial service.  Friday night we had some dear old friends from Dallas come to visit.  My brother Sam's best friend from his growing up years, Tommy, was just stationed at the air force base near our house.  He and his family just moved from Turkey.  Tommy's dad, Henry and his friend drove Tommy's truck from Texas to Utah for him.  The Perez family are good friends of our family from Dallas.  We had them all over for dinner Friday night.  My mom and Lauren came too.  We had such a nice visit with them and it was so good to see them after all these years.  After dinner we skyped with Sam and Teresa in Ohio.

 The next day, Saturday, I had to opportunity to go to the Brigham City Temple with Steve's cousin Jake who leaves next week for his mission to DC.  While I was at the temple, my kids went to help my mom in her yard.

A picture we sent to Steve Sunday morning to tell him we missed him.

Sunday was an absolutely gorgeous day.  It was so perfect outside.  Warm sun shining and cool breeze blowing.  I had to send this to Steve and rub it in since he was dying from humidity in St. Louis.

 A leisurely Sunday afternoon drive.  I could not be more excited!  Alicia, the one driving, and I were just released from serving in the Relief Society in our church.  Just a few weeks later we were called to be assistant directors for our stake youth conference next summer.  We will be putting on the production Savior of the World.  Veronica, the lovely lady on the right, is the director.  I am seriously dying of excitement.  Not only for the chance to work with all the youth in our stake, but also to work so closely with these two ladies who are two of my dearest friends.  I'm also dying from laughter because I'm looking at this picture I took when I made Alicia drive through the "shortcut" to take us home.  She was so mad at me because she had just washed her vehicle the day before.  I told her that was OK because she was on the every other day program so it was due to be washed tomorrow.  She didn't think that was funny.  I'm pretty sure her vehicle along with herself have never been off a paved road. 

 Before Steve left for St. Louis, I told him to make sure to take pictures while he was there, since he would be getting together with old friends and also his family.  I felt pretty confident that that wasn't going to happen so Saturday morning I sent my Sister in Law, Lisa, a text asking her to take pictures for me.  She sent me back this picture of "Steve at 10:30 Saturday morning".

Later that day she sent me pictures from the memorial service.  This is my brother in law Mike, their old Sunday School teacher Dan Odom, and Steve.

Mike, Rick Daleen (an old friend and adopted brother of the friend who passed away), my father in law Roy, and Steve

On Sunday after church, I knew Steve was getting together with his family at his sister Heather's house.  We always have so much fun when everyone is together, so I wanted to know what I was missing out on.  I sent a group text to them all and requested pictures of what I was missing.  This is what my brother in law Ed sent.

I didn't realize Mike and Sheila had already left to go back home to Kentucky.  Sheila sent me this and said this is what I was missing.

My sister in law Heather sent me this picture, she was at work.

From Mike, my brother in law Steve is the master gardener.

From Lisa, they were watching Pirates of the Caribbean 

 From my niece, Sierra

 From Lisa

From Sheila, a picture she had taken earlier that weekend.  I wish my kids could have been there with their cousins.

It was a busy fun weekend!

19 Years and Counting

19 years ago yesterday, I made the best decision of my life when I married this man.  It wasn't long after we met (less than a week) that we knew without any doubt that we were supposed to be together for the rest of forever.  That knowledge has only been strengthened through time.  So much has happened in that last 19 years.  We have both changed so much.  I know without a doubt, it is because we have kept God first in our relationship, that our marriage is still holding strong today.  Stephen, I love you.  Thank you for loving me back!

Yesterday was our anniversary and we spent the entire day together.  It was fabulous.  We spent the first half of the day in the temple.  We decided that since we were celebrating our eternal marriage that day, we wanted to give another couple the same opportunity.  We found a husband and wife in Steve's family line and did all the ordinances in the temple for them yesterday- from baptism through sealing.  It was an awesome experience and we were able to be the witness couple to boot!  (I tried to tell Steve this was a bad angle to take a selfie from, but he wanted the temple spire in the background) (want to find out more about forever families, Mormon temples, and family history work- read to the bottom of this post)

We were dying of starvation by the time we left the temple so we went to Costa Vida for lunch.

Then we went to see a movie- Godzilla.  This is a picture I took of us in the movie.  If you could see it, what you would see is Steve having a hard time sitting through it, me sound asleep and apparently snoring, and both of us giving it a big 2 thumbs down.

After the movie we drove a little way up the canyon, found the perfect grassy shaded area, laid a blanket out and I read a book to Steve.  We read for over 3 hours.  It was absolutely lovely.  When the time came to leave, neither of us wanted to.  If it hadn't been for hunger, we would have stayed there a few hours more.  We both agreed we should have skipped the movie and spent the whole day on the blanket.

Dinner was at The Mandarin.  It was delicious.

After dinner it was time to come home to the real world.  Real World = a disastrous house, strawberry jam all over every surface of the kitchen, video gaming, a missing teenager, small children up past 10 on a school night, everything the kids ate yesterday on display on the kitchen island, and much much more!

I am so thankful for my husband.  I am so thankful that we have been sealed in the House of the Lord.  I am so thankful that our family can be together throughout the eternities.  I am so thankful we live close to a temple.  I am so thankful for the life Steve and I have built together with the help of our Heavenly Father. 

Want to know more about Mormon Temples?

We believe that family relationships continue after death.  We believe that the sealing power spoken of in Matthew  has been restored to the earth today.  Families can be together forever.  When a couple is married in the temple or a family goes to the temple together to be sealed, they are sealed together not just for this life, but for all eternity.

  “And I will give unto thee the keys of the kingdom of heaven: and whatsoever thou shalt bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever thou shalt loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven” (Matthew 16:19).

We believe that everyone should have the opportunity to be baptized and receive other sacred ordinances, such as being sealed to their family.  Even those who did not have that opportunity in this life.  In the temple we are able to perform those ordinances on behalf of our ancestors who have passed on.  We stand in as proxy, acting for them.  It is their choice to accept those ordinances or not in the spirit world.

 "Else what shall they do which are baptized for the dead, if the dead rise not at all? why are they then baptized for the dead?"  (1 Corinthians 15:29)

We believe that the family is central to the plan of our Heavenly Father.  You can read "The Family: A Proclamation to the World" by clicking here.  Because the family is so important, because family relationships last beyond the grave, and because we have the opportunity to perform sacred ordinances for family members who have passed on, family history work is an important part of our church also.  Our church has an awesome website, available to anyone, that can help you trace your family lineage, find out more about your ancestors, and it also gives you a place to store photos and stories of your ancestors and family members.  I have been able to trace some of my family lines all the way back to Adam and Eve (for real!).  You can find that website by clicking here.

To find out more about Mormons and temples, click here.  I am also happy to answer any questions or to help you navigate your way through the Family Search website to help you build your family tree.

Day Tripper - Vernal Utah

I was gone Wednesday evening through late Friday night to Women's Conference.  Steve had to leave Saturday morning to drive to Vernal to pick up some machinery his employees were using on a job there.  He was planning on taking Zac with him so Zac could get some practice time driving.  They were going to be gone all day.  I missed Steve terribly so the thought of him turning around and leaving as soon as I had returned home made me sad.  Also, I knew if I stayed home I would be cleaning house all day and that was so incredibly unappealing.  Also, about 10 years ago Steve did the floors for a new Dinosaur museum in Vernal, and I have been wanting to take the kids there ever since.  Plus our family theme this year is iStand and we are trying to visit as many temples this year as possible.  So factoring all that information in, it just seemed like the perfect opportunity for a day trip.  Emily had a few too many birthday parties to attend that day so she stayed behind, but the rest of us loaded into Steve's truck and headed out for the armpit of Utah Vernal.  

First stop (after lunch of course) was the temple.  The Vernal Temple was originally a tabernacle that was built in 1907.  Ninety years later it was completely gutted, leaving only the outside walls, and turned into a temple.  It was neat to see this historic building turned House of the Lord.

After leaving the temple we went to the museum.

Steve, checking out the floors to see how they were holding up after all these years.  These are some of the first footprints he ever put into a floor.  I must say, after 10 years the floors still look fabulous.  Good work dear.

Um, yeah.  This is the most awesome wall.  I want one.

Hold very still and maybe it won't see us....

Fluorescent minerals

The garden was lovely.  The weather was perfect.  No one wanted to get back into the truck for another 3 hour drive.  So we enjoyed hanging around here for a good while.

We found a shade tree with a lovely bench under it.  It was the perfect place for a little snooze.

(I totally want the fence below to be my fence.) 

Alas, the time came to finally board the vehicle and begin the journey home.  It was a fun day.  We saw some new and exciting sites.  The kids visited a museum their father did the floors in.  Zac did a great job driving.  I didn't have to clean my house (a fact that is very noticeable today, especially since I'm doing this post while still postponing the dirty job).  It was a fun adventure!