Flashback: October 2008
The Day Of The Stitches


Yep. I remember that day just like it was yesterday. Two trips to the ER within hours of each other, ending up in seven stitches a piece. If you want the details of that day you can click
here.
Flashforward: Almost October 2010
The Day Of The Almost Stitches

This poor, poor little baby. She has been to the hospital far too many times in her little life. Last Thursday, we added to that list of hospital visits. We just got home from pre school. She had a friend over and they were upstairs playing and I was downstairs making lunch. I heard a crash. I heard crying. OK, right now, at this point in the story, you are going to be horrified at the kind of mother I am. But that's OK. You can judge me if you want. Just know that in the Bible, it says not to. So I heard the crash and the cry. And I kept on making lunch. If I stopped what I was doing and ran every time I heard a crash or a cry, I would be stopped and on the run ALL THE TIME. Usually the crying stops within a minute and life as normal resumes. But after a minute, the crying didn't stop. And I remembered that I had someone elses child here and I should probably go and make sure everyone was OK. So as I was making my way up the stairs, Addy was making her way down. And I about freaked when I saw her face, covered in blood. I couldn't even tell where the blood was coming from, there was so much of it. Fine. I admit it, I am a bad mom. Sigh...
I cleaned her up, decided she probably needed stitches, loaded the kids in the car, returned the friend to his house, and made my way to the hospital with poor little Addy strapped in the backseat. I wished so much that I could hold her crying little body in my arms while I was driving. The doctor gave me the option of stitches or glue. She said the stitches would require putting her in a papoose to stitch her up. I still have nightmares of the last time they had to do that to her and I think she does too, because when I told her we were going to get stitches she freaked out. So to save us both the drama and trauma, I chose option #2, the glue. Here she is enjoying the spoils of her torture session:

What did she do to create such a huge gash in her head? She was showing her friend her "Dangerous Tricks", for which she is famous. She is always doing "Dangerous Tricks", which usually aren't so dangerous. But this time they were. She was in the guest bedroom jumping from one bed to another, when she fell and hit the side table. I told her that she could NEVER do dangerous tricks again, that she could only do SAFE tricks from now on. So the next day, she had all her friends on the stairs and she was explaining to them that she could not do dangerous tricks for them, she could only do safe tricks. It was so cute.
But it didn't last long. Later that day, we were at my mom's house and she was in the back yard playing. She was trying to climb over the fence so she could play with the kids next door. She cut a huge gash in the palm of her hand from the top of the fence. When Steve carried her around to the front yard and showed me her hand with the blood pouring out of it, I thought I was going to pass out. I just couldn't take any more blood and trauma. Oh Addy, I just don't know what to do with you.
PS: Because I haven't already said enough. It really is Sunday, October 1st when I am posting this, but I really really meant to post it both on Friday and Saturday but I never could find the time. You understand, right?