Friday, September 27, 2013

Happy Birthday Myrle

Today is Steve's mother's Birthday.  She would have been 68 years old today.  She left this mortal life when she was only 45 years old.  I cannot even fathom that.  My husband is 46.  I can't even think about what the rest of my life would be like without him here.  

In 1990, when she passed away, I was just beginning my Junior year of High School in Dallas Texas.  I was living a happy and carefree life and was completely oblivious to the fact that just a few states away, in St. Louis Missouri, my future husband was being devastated and my future life, and the lives of my children, were being forever changed.

Even though I  never met Myrle in this life, I know we were friends before we came to earth.  I know we will have a very happy reunion someday.  There are so many times I look into my daughters eyes and see a part of her alive in them.  She lived a short 45 years on this earth, but her beautiful legacy lives on.

Here is the Birthday video I made to celebrate this special day:


Tuesday, September 24, 2013

Bump, Set, Spike

Our girls started a new school  this year.  So far we love everything about it.  Great teachers, awesome curriculum and values, standards and beliefs that we embrace.  One of my children, who shall not be named, was not very keen  on switching schools.  But I think she has come to learn that being a big fish in a little pond has its perks.

Emily tried out for the school volleyball team and she made it!  They had their first two games last Wednesday. I was not able to be there because Zac had a Court of Honor that night and I went to that with him while Steve went to Emily's game (we are finding ourselves having to divide and conquer more and more often these days).  She had two more games last night and we were all able to go to her first game before Zac and Steve had to leave to attend an event at Zac's school.  I was so proud of Emily.  She did a great job and she has a pretty awesome serve.  I lost count but I think during one run she got 7 or 8 serves in a row across.


Between games we enjoyed a picnic dinner (We had a hot dinner that I had made earlier that day.  Want to find out how?  Click here.  I love this and we use it all the time).  Steve's employee Jose Luis ate with us and helped cheer Emily on during her first game.  When the boys had to leave, my mom and Lauren came to cheer her on during her second game.



Monday, September 23, 2013

Girls Version Of Labor Day Weekend

So last night, Steve did a guest post about his Labor Day Weekend adventures.  He took Zac and his friend Emerson and Emily on an awesome ATV trip.  Aubrey and Addy and I made our own kind of fun that weekend at home.  We were invited to go on two different trips, but we turned them down for a low key weekend with just the three of us.  Steve invited us to go along on their excursion.  And my BFFs invited us to go with them and their families camping at Bear Lake.  I've always wanted to go on an ATV trip of the likes that they took.  But at that moment in time I just could not bring myself to want to go on another trip that would take so much effort to plan ahead of time (Steve decided they were going less than a week before they left).  We had just been on two back to back trips- Camping and Education Week, and in between those trips Emily had girls camp, and if you read Steve's post you will know I was in charge of packing for that as well.  Life had been crazy fun all summer long and we had just gone back to school the week before and I was so excited for life to calm down and get back to normal.  I really could not bring myself to want to go on that trip.  Or camping at Bear Lake.  I know if we would have gone we would have had a blast.  I would have been on the beach all weekend with my BFFs and the girls would have been on the beach all weekend with theirs.  But again, I just could not get excited about preparing for and packing for and going on another trip at that particular point in my life (this means I am getting old).  So these cute girls and I decided that we were going to have the most relaxing fun girl weekend possible.  We were not for one second going to do anything we didn't want to do.  All weekend long.  And by the end of the weekend, the house was living proof that the weekend did not disappoint (I didn't want to clean).  

Aubrey took care of my friend Allison's chickens and dog Mingus while they were away living it up at Bear Lake.  Aubrey was in heaven!  She is our animal lover.  All of our chickens have been eaten by animals other than ourselves and she has been missing them.  She loved taking care of the chickens and especially Mingus since her mother is so mean and won't let her have a dog.  Although I must say, spending the weekend with Mingus almost made me want to have a dog.  But only if we can have Mingus.  And I don't think that's going to happen, so I guess we are safe.  Anyway, here are some highlights from our weekend.

First, as soon as everyone left, we hopped in the van and hit up the Redbox.  The girls chose a couple movies and video games each.  Then we went shopping for food for the weekend.  We bought pretty much everything that looked good to us at the moment.  I don't have any pictures from that night but we just basically put ourselves into a movie/food coma.  The next day we slept in and then went to see Monsters University with my sister Lauren.  I'm super cheap so I never buy popcorn or drinks or anything at the movies.  But since this weekend we were not doing anything we didn't want to do, well, we didn't want to watch the movie without popcorn and drinks so we splurged.  After the movie we went to my moms house where she had her homemade chicken soup waiting for us.  They girls played on her electronics.




Then we went for frozen yogurt.

Sunday we went to church and came home and slept.  And since I was in such a giving mood that weekend, I let Aubrey bring Mingus home with us for a few hours.  This made both girls and Mingus very happy.

The next day, Aubrey's friend Grace came over and we all went out to lunch.

And that evening our adventurers came home.  It was Zac's Birthday.  He had requested fajitas and guacamole for dinner so we had fajitas and guacamole (that was the most food prep I had done all weekend so I hope he appreciated it!).  My mom and Lauren had dinner with us and my mom made Zac his favorite Pina Colada Cake.

Sunday, September 22, 2013

Paiute Trail Expedition 2013


 Labor Day Weekend (Guest Editor)
For Zachary's 16th birthday we decided that we were going to do something we had talked about for a couple of years now. We were going to load up our atvs with everything we would need to spend a few days on the Paiute ATV Trail. I was surprised how little we can actually pack on an atv and still keep it rideable on a trail. It's alot like backpacking, except that you can bring lawnchairs. And your butt gets sore instead of your feet.
So as soon as Zac and Em and Emerson (Zac's friend) got home from school we loaded up and headed out, along with about 30,000 other people. We made it to Salt Lake and came to a dead stop. Everyone was leaving town at the same time. So we got off of the interstate and took the backroads. Took for freaking ever...We were headed for Fremont Indian State Park as our starting point, because we knew the area from our previous family trip. It was absolutely dark as we unpacked and headed up the trail, but we found a beautiful spot about 2 miles up the trail, next to a creek.

DAY 2- Saturday, 31 August
We awoke to a little bit of overcast skies and the sound of passing atvs. It was time to get up and make breakfast.
Now, it had been a little bit of a rough night. We discovered that not everyone had taken Dad seriously when I told them what to bring. See, there is a big difference between Mom and Dad. I guess they (not naming any names) are just used to Mom telling them what to do multiple times and giving up and just doing it for them. So when I said to pack a sleeping bag (which just seems pretty obvious) that is what I meant. Pack your own sleeping bag. Nights on the mountain can be pretty long and cold without one.

There was surprisingly little grumbling about getting going. Everyone was ready to get started on our little adventure.

Now we have been having a debate in our family about proper camping breakfast. Oatmeal vs. Cup-o-Noodles. And fire roasted Pop Tarts. The debate was settled on this trip. We pumped and purified our water, boiled it up and cooked our Cup-o-Noodles (we didn't carry much water to save room). It is easy to make, warm, filling, and easy to clean up after. We had breakfast, took a vote, and it was unanimous. Cup-o-Noodles and 1 Pop Tart are the way to go.

 Breakfast was done, camp was packed and loaded, and we were ready to go..
 ...except...
One of the atvs wouldn't start. We had a dead battery. Great start to a multi-day trip right? Luckily we were only 2 miles from the truck. Zac blasted back to the truck to get the jumper cables while we took the wheeler apart. By the time we had the battery exposed he was already back. We got it running and hit the trail.

We started the day down at about the 6,500 ft. elevation amongst the sagebrush and cedar trees but we spent the whole morning climbing the Tushar Mountains, and by noon we were approaching the treeline. In the background you can see Mount Belnap and our last blue sky.
 Here we are at the pass between Mount Belnap and Mount Baldy. This is the highest point on the entire 900 mile trail system. The storm clouds were beginning to build and it was pretty cold. Not all of us had pants to put on because Mom didn't pack any for us (Zac chose not to put on the pants he had packed for himself).
 One of the great things about the Paiute system? Clean bathrooms. They are just pit toilets but they are clean and welcoming. And not stocked with that industrial grade toilet paper either. No, these are stocked with quilted Charmin all along the trail. You can rough it and still be civilized.
 We stopped for lunch on Sawmill Ridge around 2 o'clock, just as it started to drizzle. We stopped and warmed up our MREs. Since Emerson was the new guy on our trip and it was Zac's birthday he had to be Zac's servant for the weekend. Leg itches Sir? No problem..






 Cheese Tortellini for lunch
 And back on the trail. I was really surprised how well Emerson did. This was his first real trail ride and it's alot different than riding around your yard on a kiddie atv.
 We finally made it to our 2nd bivvy site around 5pm. It had stopped raining for a bit so we hurried and set up camp and tried to get a fire started and dinner cooked but everything was pretty wet after days of rain in the area. No problem. We were carrying gas cans. This is Zac roasting 'corn weeds'. We had ridden about 50 miles that day so we didn't stay up long.

DAY 3- Sunday, 1 September
We awoke to a little overcast, but it wasn't raining. We could see down to the Circleville Valley about 7 miles below and it was foggy. As we watched, the fog raced up the canyon toward us and in about 5 minutes we couldn't even see. It was absolutely quiet and beautiful. As the fog cleared we could see a solitary mountain goat up on the hill to our north, too far for a picture though. It might have been a white cow, but I am going with goat.
We didn't want to ride on Sunday morning so we lounged around camp for a few hours.
 Sometimes, even with gasoline, wood won't burn.. No problem. We weren't cooking anything so we didn't need a fire.
 Sunday morning in 'The Grove'. There had been a fire here a few years ago which took out all of the giant pine trees. The quakies were growing back fast and taking over. We spent sunday morning here just being quiet.
 By late morning we were pretty hungry and about out of gas in the wheelers so we headed down the canyon to Circleville. The plan was to get fueled up and have lunch in town before we headed back north toward Marysvale. Yeah, it's drizzling again. Not hard, just enough to deepen the colors of everything and dampen the sounds. It was actually great riding weather and there was no one around. I think the rain scared everyone away..
 We made it to Circleville and found a little diner that was open. They made these great cheeseburgers with onion and green chilles in the patties. We were ready for something besides campfire food and it was great. The whole place had memorabilia from Butch Cassidy (who was from Circleville) and the Wild Bunch. His house is a tourist attraction in town. We also found out from our waitress (who was also our cook) that the only gas station in town had gone out of business last year.  (I think that should be on the web sites we studied in planning our trip. It's kind of important). We had to ride 7 miles north on highway 89 to Junction to get gas. Nothing like traffic and pavement on a wheeler..
 We rode north along the Sevier River headed for Marysvale. We were racing that storm you can see in the background. It kind of rained off and on as we rode, but when we hit Marysvale it poured. We didn't care. We stopped at the gas station, bought some of those old fashioned stick candies, and just kept riding. It was great. Marysvale is kind of the central hub of the whole system and there were dozens of riders pulled over waiting out the storm under whatever shelter they could find. We just rode on by.
 We headed up Marysvale Canyon looking for a bivvy site for the night. We found a good one right next to the creek and it was even pre-stocked with dry firewood. The creek rose about 1 foot in the first hour we were there with all the rain. But the 2 big pine trees in camp gave us good shelter.
 We were even able to make a clothes dryer before the temperature dropped for the night.
 Zac and Emerson went out looking for more firewood. See the little stream running through our campsite?
 We ate dinner, washed our dishes, and retreated to our tents for the night.

DAY 4- Monday, 2 September
Zac's birthday. See that? That's a blue sky, the first we had seen for forever, and of course it was time to start heading for home.

 Emerson at the cabin at the Silver King Mine. We had been there before on our family atv trip but stopped to use the facilities again and show Emerson around.
 From Silver King we headed back down the trail toward the truck.
 As we got to the bottom of this hill about half a mile from our original bivvy site on night 1, we came across these bear tracks in the mud. They were about 10" across. I am pretty sure that the pistol I carry on these rides would have been pretty useless. We were pretty careful. We knew it was bear country going in and kept our food far from camp.
 This is about mile 120 of our trip. We were getting pretty tired by this time. 120 miles on an atv is a long long way. But tired or not, there was still mud to play in..
We finally made it back to the truck about lunch time and headed for home. And someone's feet (again naming no names) smelled so bad we made her ride home with them hanging out the window.








It was a great weekend and I am already itching to go do it again, maybe in Moab this fall.

We have a new family camping rule. Rule #1 has always been "Don't lick a cactus". We learned that one while camping in Moab when the kids were little. Rule #2 is now "Dad is not Mom. Pack your own crap or you do without". It is a simple rule, just like Rule #1, and equally important. I don't think it will be forgotten anytime soon either.

Friday, September 20, 2013

Flashback/Flashforward Friday - Boys Will Be Boys

We never found out what any of our kids were before they were born.  Before Addison was born Zac was holding out hope that he would get a brother.  After Addison was born and Zac found out she was a girl, he announced he was moving into the garage.  Fortunately for him he has a plethora of boy cousins all around the same age, unfortunately they all live thousands of miles away.  When we get together they always have so much fun together.  As I was making Birthday videos for some of the boys in the last month, I came across some really cute pictures of them together throughout the years.

 Flashback: 1998
Spencer and Zac

Zac and Spencer

Flashback: 2003
Zac and Spencer

Flashforward: 2012 
Spencer and Zac

Flashback: 2003
The boys while we were at a photography studio trying to take family pictures


Flashforward: 2011
The boys while we were at Forrest Park in St. Louis trying to take a picture



Flashback: 2005
The boys at Grandpa's house

Flashforward: 2013
The boys with Grandpa and Uncle David (and Addy who slipped in)

Love these pictures!  Love these boys!